Ilia Uy is a Communication Arts graduate from University of the Philippines, Los Baños. Still currently frustrated by her present inability to find appropriate endings to her stories.
After a one and a half-hour plane ride, a seven-hour bus ride, a two-hour scary van ride — we finally reached our destination, a place I haven’t been to in the 12 years: my mother’s hometown in Zamboanga del Sur. The next 3 days were spent smiling at relatives and family friends I’ve never met before, hearing more than 3 languages spoken at the dinner table, and enduring embarrassing stories about my childhood.

Family "photo shoot" at river in Lapuyan, Zamboanga del Sur. Click to enlarge, see if you can find me.
No, the first paragraph was not just a summary of how I spent the recent Christmas holidays. It also has something to do with writing. That vacation provided tons of material for characters and story ideas. Being an out-of-town family guest provided me observer status. This is also true of regular family gatherings. (Every day family interaction still counts, of course — if only personal involvement doesn’t impair accurate observation and interpretation.)
I would say I have a very interesting family. On the paternal side, I can tell of have growing up Chinese-Filipino in the Philippines and the complications of being a “half-blood.” On the maternal side, I can take inspiration from stories from a local royal clan in the Southern Philippines.
But here is the dilemma: (more…)
